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Kirsten Fisher Therapy - Accredited Member of the BACP

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Kirsten
Fisher

Integrative Counsellor & Somatic Experiencing Advanced Trainee

Your journey to change starts here...

Step 1 - deciding you need support, if you are here, step 1 is done.


Step 2 - finding the right therapist. Whatever the issue, if you don't feel safe and connected to your therapist, it will never work. Carry on reading to see if I might be the right person for you.

If you think I might be, contact me for a free consultation - a conversation where you can ask me questions and decide if we are the right fit.


Step 3 is showing up. When you do, what you can expect from me is a safe and accepting space for you to explore whatever you bring. Therapy is not a quick fix - turning up regularly, no matter how you feel, creates the structure necessary for meaningful, lasting change.

 

  • I offer face to face therapy in Solihull & Birmingham on Wednesdays and Thursdays

  • Online sessions are available on request.

 

  • Sessions cost £65 (between 9-5) - £70 (outside of office hours).

  • Somatic sessions cost £50 

 

  • Phobia interventions (single session) cost £150


I have some therapy spaces available at concessionary rates - speak to me to find out more.


Sessions last for 50 minutes and will be at the same time and the same day on a weekly basis.

How many sessions will I need?
I don't know, is the honest answer - some people will only need a few sessions, others may need to do longer term work. It is impossible to say that what you are experiencing can be dealt with in 6 sessions, so I won't. I will review your sessions with you regularly though to make sure you are getting what you need from them.


Book a free consultation now to take your next step to healing.

What Clients Say

A fantastic service, transformative for me personally and life changing.

Can I help you?

Can I help you?

Do you feel lost, alone, scared, angry, unhappy, broken, misunderstood, different from everyone else, anxious, unlovable or unloved, unable to trust?

Do you find yourself always looking for danger, judgement, disappointment?

Does every day feel like a battle? Can’t sleep, can’t eat, can’t sit still, mind always racing, OR feeling numb, exhausted and unmotivated.

How about relationships? Does getting close to people feel scary? Are your needs being met? Your voice heard? Do you push people away? Leave them before they can leave you?

 

I have successfully worked with people going through all of these things and I want to help you too. I can’t make promises about the outcome, but I can promise to show up when you do. I believe that with your decision to have therapy and my willingness to support you, things can change for the better.

 

Therapy can be hard and painful at times but it can also be transformative. If you feel lost, afraid, anxious, overwhelmed, sad, numb, confused or generally unhappy and you want to find out who you are, heal from trauma, mourn losses or feel more able to manage everyday life and its challenges I am here for all of that and more.

What Clients Say

I started with 25 years of locked up feelings and pain and Kirsten provided me with a safe place to open up that lock and unpack it. Kirsten gave me the tools I needed to recognise my self worth and trust in me.

It is the best thing I have ever done for myself, because through all the pain and trauma I've collected over the years, I found myself, when I didn't even realise I was lost, and what's more, I like me!
Through all the tears and cringey truths I never felt judged only ever understood.

I hope just seeing and hearing the difference in me is the biggest thanks I can give, I'll be forever grateful.
How I work
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How I Work...

I am a trauma-informed integrative therapist.

 

What does that mean though?

 

Working in a trauma informed way means I focus on your life experiences, what has happened to you; not what is wrong with you. This is because there is very likely nothing wrong with you. Your relationships and life experiences have left their mark on you and who you are now is a result of that. 

 

Trauma can be caused by a single event, a series of events or a set of circumstances that are a threat (real or perceived) to your physical or emotional safety. It can also be experienced as a result of something that didn’t happen; emotional neglect, a lack of protection, no boundaries or sense of safety.

 

The effects of trauma can last from just a few days to years. The impact can range from mildly disruptive to debilitating. At the far end of the spectrum it can cause problems with your physical health, sleeping, eating, ability to work, relationships and beliefs about yourself. 

 

Living with unprocessed trauma it can be normal to see the world or others as unsafe, but you may feel your reactions are not normal, “I always overreact!”. My goal, as a trauma-informed therapist, is to help you understand that these responses are absolutely normal given what you have experienced. They are protecting you and helping you to survive.  

 

Feeling unsafe and powerless are the main aspects of trauma so my goal is to support you to a place of safety and control by putting you in charge of the healing process, going at your pace.

 

Even if it was many years ago, trauma may still be affecting how you interact in relationships and what you believe about yourself and the world. You are not stuck there forever—change and healing are possible.

 

Whether you're dealing with the immediate aftermath of trauma or the long-term effects, I’m here to help you find your way back to a sense of safety, control, and peace.

Integrative therapy

Working in an integrative way simply means I have studied different counselling models and Somatic Experiencing®. I adapt what I use to what works for you. If something doesn’t suit your needs or doesn’t feel right for you, we throw it out and try something else. I work this way because every person is different and what works for one person may not work for another. Some people find that having the space to be listened to and accepted is enough, others want to explore their world in a more creative way, for others it can be helpful to understand how our brains work to protect us and uncover the answers as to why we think, feel or act in certain ways. Working somatically means focussing on bodily sensations, responses felt in the nervous system, to internal and external input (thoughts, events or interactions with others).

Somatic experiencing®

“Trauma is not in the event, it is in the Nervous System.” - Peter A Levine Somatic Experiencing® (SE) is a body-centred therapy that helps you heal by focusing on the body’s sensations to help release tension and stress that is trapped in your nervous system from past traumas. It enables you to release the energy that is stored up following traumatic experiences, promoting a sense of safety, balance, and well-being. ​ This work prioritises creating safety within you, enabling you to heal without the risk of being re- traumatised, helping you to feel more balanced and at ease in your daily life. It is especially effective for the healing of trauma but can also work successfully with many other issues. SE can work without the need for reliving your story, the narrative is not the focus of this therapy. This means that if you don’t have the whole picture of what happened to you or you don’t want to talk about it, it is still possible to heal. What do I mean by trauma? At some point in our lives we will all experience trauma - some of which we can recover from without needing therapy. Imagine that you hear about the death of an old friend, someone you haven’t seen or spoken to in a long time, you weren’t expecting it and the shock of it knocks you about for a couple of weeks. During this time you may experience disruptions to your eating and sleeping, anger, sadness, fear of loved ones dying, feeling numb, mind-racing and on and on. Once your mind has processed and come to terms with this loss those symptoms will disappear and you will return to your usual state of being. Now imagine the news of the death was about your closest friend who you speak to every couple of days. The symptoms will be the same but the intensity and length of time you experience them will be much greater. The longer it goes on, the more symptoms can arise creating other issues for you to deal with. You may need additional support to recover from this trauma. What can I expect from SE sessions? A Gentle, Safe Space I create a calm and supportive environment where you can explore your experiences in a safe and contained way. Unlike a lot of traumatic experiences, you won't have to face the memories alone—I will be there with you and you will be safe. Work on your trauma will not begin until you are able to find some sense of safety with me and within yourself. Listening to Your Body SE pays close attention to bodily sensations, movements, and emotions. I might ask you to notice how your body feels in the moment—while you think about the memory. You may notice things like tension, warmth, or a change in your breathing. Slow and Intentional Steps SE sessions move at a pace that is safe for you. Instead of diving straight into difficult memories, the focus is on small, manageable steps that help your nervous system reset and recover from stress. When you are in a state to manage more, we will work on the trauma in small pieces, taking time out to give your nervous system a rest. Regulation I will invite you to spend time thinking of things, people, places or experiences that bring you a sense of calm or contentment. This will be done throughout the session so your nervous system does not become overwhelmed. We will work with a very small piece of traumatic material then bring your focus back to what supports you. Using Movement and Awareness I may guide you through simple movements, breathing techniques, or actions. These practices help your body release stored tension and restore balance. Building Resilience and Self-Regulation Over time, SE helps you develop a stronger sense of control over your emotions and bodily responses. You will feel more able to trust what your body tells you and separate out the fear experienced during the trauma from the fear of the memory. You may notice feeling more grounded, calm, and able to handle stress in everyday life. I offer Somatic Experiencing® as an advanced trainee having just one module of training left to complete. "Trauma is a fact of life. It does not, however, have to be a life sentence." Peter A. Levine

Neuro-linguistic Programming (NLP)

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I am also a qualified NLP (Neuro-linguistic programming) Practitioner. I may use some NLP techniques in our sessions from time to time but I primarily use it to offer single-session phobia interventions. This technique doesn’t expose you to the feared object; instead, it interrupts your usual response to help you view it differently. It is incredibly effective and normally only requires one session. I will always check in with you to see if an additional session is required (at no additional cost). It might be hard to imagine being free of something that impacts on your life as severely as a phobia in just one session, but it works. No long term work week after week to get you there, no exposure to the thing that irrationally terrifies you - occasionally something that sounds too good to be true actually is that good. If freedom from irrational fear is something you long for, get in touch.

What will our sessions be like?

My approach is warm and relaxed. My first job is to create a place that feels safe for you. Sharing your thoughts and feelings with a total stranger, even one who is there to help you, can feel scary. Trust is something that is earned, not a given. To do this I provide a supportive and accepting space, somewhere you can honestly and openly explore your thoughts, feelings, and experiences without fear of judgement. The content and pace of sessions will be set by you, what you share and when you decide to share it is up to you. We will start our work together by looking at what has brought you to therapy, what you would like to be different and how we can work towards that. This might be done with traditional therapy, Somatic Experiencing® or both. I don't claim to have the answers, you will always know yourself better than I do, but together we can explore what might help you to make changes to improve how you feel. During therapy we will review your sessions together, making sure you are getting what you need from them. When the time is right, ending therapy will be negotiated between us, making sure you feel ready to move on. My role is to support you until you no longer need support because you know you can trust yourself going forward; feeling confident that although life will always have challenges, you can handle them. Want to experience this for yourself? Let’s talk.

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